How to Not (Pointlessly) Argue on Social Media and Maybe Create Real Change Along the Way
In the last three years or so, I have been asked nearly 100 times,
"Plop (my stage name), how is real change created?"
Great question.
Complicated answer.
As we stand on the bridge of ages, this is a question many of us are deeply committed to exploring. I'm wagering that you are tinkering with this in some way.
Cut to our soul's weekly astral meetup to share codes:
"Guys, we're forgetting to clear religious purgatory programming!"
"My God, if we can transform the sin program, imagine the space we will create to oppose something without trying to punish it!"
"Quick, send the update to the entire resonance field!"
Weeks later: you and eight people you know are all channeling unique programs on clearing religious programming (there's copying and there's getting the same templates, but that's a conversation for another time).
You think I'm joking, but I'm not 🙃
Let's survey:
We have a small pool of prominent examples of change skillfully created.
However, we have endless examples of people attempting to create change and…
…completely burning themselves out, then needing a 3-year break from even thinking about change (ah yes, the part in the story where the activist identity starts to feel like a tight wool sweater)
…ending up in a never-ending toddler-style loop of I'm right and you're wrong! (side-eyes all major news outlets 👀)
…becoming another angry character in the Earth Division Saga (returning to Netflix in 2023) devoid of capacity, understanding, and generative life-fore
…bonus round: becoming that person on social media whose entire identity revolves around being polarizing and, thus, eliciting projection fields (comment sections) filled with petty arguments. Ah, the dopamine-inducing high of trigger-arguing with someone online. If only this were the real way change was created! The progress we would have made!
I'm not claiming to have the answer to this massive question. I have, however, devoted an immense amount of energy, practice, and experience to this exploration and mined an abundance of golden nuggets along the way.
Nugget 1: Anger is a necessary alchemical step in the change-making process. And, there are more skillful ways to work with it than gas-lighting yourself or immediately taking to social media.
What most of us are taught:
1. Experience something upsetting (and potentially get triggered)
2. Feel real-time authentic anger, other people's anger, your mom's anger, and the anger you never felt 15 years ago
3. Suppress rage and/or immediately find a place to project that anger onto
4. Wonder why you don’t feel better long-term
Another option, if I may 🥸
The anger you're feeling is rarely 100% yours. Ground, regulate (always step 1), clear the anger that doesn't belong to you, and then — work with what is yours. When I say work with, I mean let those fires roar through your system in whatever way you have the capacity for. Break shit, scream, breathe, roar, move, dance, pray, grieve.
Here's what will happen if you create space for your anger. It will, inevitably, turn into something else… and something else… and something else. Before you know it, your excruciatingly holy rage will have become a portal into more of yourself.
Say hello to the thing that invoked your anger and see what it looks like now. Welcome to the fertile place where more accurate perception lives. You may still vehemently dislike the thing, but you will be more separate from it.
One of the foundational mechanics for creating real change is separateness from the thing we are opposing. Are you seeing how most people attempt to change something while still matching energy with it via their resistance to it? Are you seeing how, as one of my teachers says, "what you resist, you become?”
Nugget 2: Attempting to neutralize your entire system is an option, but most likely not why you expressed a magnificent interest in incarnating.
Neutrality is vastly misunderstood.
And, for good reason. It's confusing.
To make the complex simple: transcendence or hanging out in non-dual planes of consciousness neutralizes your entire aura. I.e., goodbye emotion, meaning, story, tension, contradiction, contrast, and all the goodies that come with duality.
While this is a way to eradicate division from your system, most of us are not super interested in that. Thankfully, there are other ways to work with neutrality than sailing away into the oceans of non-dualism (don't forget your diaper! Where you're going, you'll forget to use the bathroom).
You can cultivate neutrality in your perception of something by consistently working to see something as it is (you'll never get a 100% accurate perception of something, and that's awesome). As you do this, it will naturally create space for the rest of your system to experience its full range of emotions, meaning, and story.
I'm going to separate from this thing that's making me angry which will only further aid me in seeing it more clearly and experiencing what's mine, which will ultimately deepen my engagement with life.
Wordy to explain, simple to do.
Nugget 3: Nature knows how to create real change. We are nature. Our capacity to collaborate with forces designed to protect, preserve, and generate life deserves a seat at the table.
So what's all this body-nervous system-aura work leading to? Sounds like a whole lotta being with my stuff.
Why yes, yes, it is.
And the more you do this, the more you get access to your (living) authentic energies.
More authentic energies = more flow.
More flow = more access to yourself as a conduit.
Conduit state = divine human creator potential unlocked.
I believe in our ability to become conduits so profoundly, I created an entire program for it… and another one.
This is where the change that creates worlds lives. When we become clear enough that our bodies become vessels for the innovation of creation. These are the moments in which God moves you. You know exactly what to say and do. Yet, very little is required because you emanate the presence itself.
Words will never do this state justice, and that is by design. When you are creating access to worlds, force is no longer relevant. Everyone who desires said access gains it effortlessly through you as the offering. And, everyone who doesn't have the eyes to see lives in the field of acceptance that naturally births from this state. This is what Jesus Christ, Gandhi, and others modeled for us. A master-level template, if you will.
As you can probably tell, there's more where this came from.
I have devoted many hours (lifetimes?) to this exploration of how real change is created. How do we access the Creator-state? What are the non-negotiables? What are the mechanics?
